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Sunday, 13 September 2009

  • What is your definition of love?

    Depends on what type of love...

    puppy love- say i love you, when they tick you off say good bye.

    marriage love- to give your self 100% to another person, working threw good and bad times 

    friendship love- to be there for your friend and CARE what happens to them

    sisterly love- do what ever it takes to defend them and take care of them

    love-give your self to another person, ensuring that there physical and emotional needs are met, never giving up on them when things get bad

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Tuesday, 08 September 2009

  • This is what I would say..

    I couldn't believe that I would ever just leave you like that. The hurt and pain threw these years should of been enough to drive me away but it didn't. It just keeped me there hoping that you would change. That you would care about our friendship more then you would money. I would hope that you care enough more to do the simple things in life then just what evering with it. Shock waves have ran threw my body when I found out that you where cheating on me with another female. My heart was crumble. It will be ok thought because I a southern bell.

    I was looking forward to all the children that we would of have in a few years. I was looking forward to that log cabin that was going to be built. I was looking forward to the sound of MOOOO in the moring. I don't like cows but they taste really good on my plate. I was looking forward to growing old with you. Keep wondering are you the punishment for the torture I bring to males?  Are you the grief that is edge for me?  I keep thinking I am just a strong person and I am. This is it Ty. This all that is left or what was us.. just words on blog. That final cut of grief that I will ever take.

    Some day I am going to find Mr. Right. When I do you are invited to ever social function that we have. I want you there so that you may see how well I am doing. I want you to the expersion on your face when I am content with everything in my life.

Saturday, 04 July 2009

  • My wisdom..

    Writing or figuring out what to write in this blog is becoming harder. There is so many things that I want to say but the words are unfounded in my head. There is knowledge that I want to share with you but don't where to start. Here are few things that I do know.

    1. If you think he is cheating on you .. he proabley is.

    2. People who use there power of influence to bring you down are jealous.

    3. Judy is the female version of Jody.

    4. You should show love to someone or no one will show love to you.

    5. If you hold a grud1ge against some one the only person it is hurting is you. Your anger will die with and the only people that will remember you is the people who knew you when you where alive.

    6. Don't listen to people who tell you that your dreams are stupid.

    7. You will hit rock bottom on day. It is ok though because you will be tougher and stronger than you were before.

    8. If you truly like a guy... don't have sex with him. He will have more respect for you in the long run if you make him wait.

    9. Don't complain about how life has dealt you. You make your life what it is.

    10. Take your goals in small bites.

    11. Help some one besides your self.

    12. Every one wants to talk bad about some one when they are alive. If that person dies you will talk about all the good he has done in this world.

    13. Laugh

Saturday, 27 June 2009

  • My blog my voice

    This is my blog and it is my voice. In a word where people are so self involved with them selves... it is nice to come here. This is my words type all pretty in hopes that some one will endure my new age ideas. This is my one chance to tell you want I wanted to tell you one the street but you ignored me. This is my one chance to tell how to learn form life and not how to live yours. This is my blog... happy that is what it is. This is an excersise of my 5th amendmant. This is my blog like love it hate but in the end it is my opinion. You can respect that or disagree with what I say, that is you choice. This is my blog .. a love that can't be taken a way or torn from the hands of an angrey social group. This my words that you won't hear me say because you would rather read about them then to up hold a converstaion with me. This is my blog.. and I am proud of it.

Wednesday, 22 October 2008

  • Re: Aw yes that first kiss

    I never thought about dating another guy. Well, ... I was going to date girls. I hate a lot of females. What change my mind about going into a different direction? This guy I met. It was that first kiss.

    I mean it kind of like being a teenager all over again but not really. We sat in my car and he asked " Would you mind if I kiss you" I said yes. I don't know what happen. It was like electritey running threw my body. So I did it again. It was just so like a dream.

    He was telling me all the things that he had been threw. I know most of them all ready. Bad stuff. He join the army because of his family and he loves it. He also said that he met girls that said I love you to him.They didn't even know him that well. Well I don't either.

    I told him that some girls will say that because they here army and money comes to their mind. It is so sad. I told him to be careful ... Just being funny he said that I am into army women.

    Yeah I am in the army and we are going to go over seas soon. Both of us. There is nothing to come home to so why do I care what happens. I mean for reall.

    A good women is hard to find. I wanted one to take care of because men did me so wrong. I am going to stop looking because right now I want him. I am just all fuck up about stuff. Please forgive christiana (I think that your name). I don't believe in metting some one on line.

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